Monday, June 22, 2009

Not sure I buy it...



So I had started a post about this topic last night, then scrapped it but after ready today's post on SBM, I knew I had to address it.

The post was about a method that really should be employed by everyone called the stop...think method. Use it before you jump to conclusions. When my boyfriend were in the rocky stage before we got back together, I noted that he wasn't really showing his love to me the way he had before. Though this is partly my fault for all of the f*cked up things I did to him, I was like well maybe he doesn't love me anymore like he says he does. I stopped. I thought. Umm did he not just make me cry for a good 20 minutes after what he put on me? He did, he puts in overtime because he loves me.

So I was feeling the post and then I got to the comments. One girl said that the method didn't work for her. That men said and did things with booty as their ultimate driving force.

"Yes, boo, I'll take a long (boring) walk with you tonight." Translation: You better be givin me some head to night for this!
(One of the commentator's examples) "You're my wifey." Translation: That p*ssy is mine!

Now I will admit, I tend to have this same outlook on men. That at their fundamental core, every action leads back to sex. This can't ALWAYS be true...or can it?

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